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This
article originally appeared in the Llewellyn's 2007 Moon Sign Book.
Today
is the Day: Astrology for each day of the week By April
Elliott Kent
The alarm rings at 7:00 a.m. sharp. You
stumble to the kitchen, turn on the coffeemaker, and jump in the shower. Yikes
no shampoo! You meant to buy some yesterday well, soap will have
to do. Showered and dried, you rummage through the knot of socks in your dresser
drawer and salvage the pair with the fewest holes. Speed to the kitchen, slosh
some coffee in a thermal cup no time for breakfast; youll grab a Danish
at work. Where are your keys, where are your keys you start your car and
a warning light appears on the dashboard: Youre almost out of gas. Youre
going to be late - again!
Life is hectic, and its
tempting to imagine that keeping our busy households in order is a uniquely modern
challenge. The truth is, our basic needs for food, clothing, and safe shelter
havent changed over our long history of living together in homes - although
our methods of meeting these needs certainly have.
In our modern age of
electric lights, coffee makers, and fast-food restaurants, were largely
disconnected from the normal cycles of seasons, phases of the moon, and even day
and night. Not so long ago, however, daily activities were routinely planned around
these familiar cycles. I grew up on a farm in the early 1960s, and my father consulted
the Old Farmers Almanac before planting his crops to ensure that the phase and
sign of the moon were appropriate. My aunt, who often gave us haircuts, would
only wield her scissors when the Moon was in its waxing phase; she claimed this
guaranteed faster-growing, healthier hair.
These
were not astrologers, just people with a rich tradition of respecting and working
with natural cycles. In agricultural societies, cooperation with nature has always
been acknowledged as crucial to survival and to a successful harvest. Its
only natural that domestic routines came to reflect the same sensibility. The
seasons and lunar phases dictated times for planting, fertilizing, and gathering;
and the days of the week, with their connection to the Sun, Moon, and five visible
planets, suggested a natural system for organizing tasks, such as housework, that
are done on a regular basis.
This connection is visible even in the names
of the days of the week. Sunday was, of course, named for the Sun, and Monday
for the Moon, honoring the rulers of day and night. The other days take their
names from Norse gods of antiquity, and are ruled by the planets named for their
mythical Roman counterparts. Tuesday was named after Tews, the god of war, and
is ruled by Mars. Wednesday (Woedens Day) derives its name from Odin, the
god of wisdom; its ruler is Mercury. Thors Day was named for
the god of thunder and protection and is ruled by Jupiter. Friday, named for Freya,
goddess of love and fertility, is ruled by Venus. Finally, Saturday takes its
name from Saturn, the Roman god of the harvest.
Each day is believed to
have a sympathetic connection with tasks that are ruled by the planet for which
it was named. So culturally pervasive is this connection that it has found its
way into folklore and song. The nursery rhyme Here We Go Round the
Mulberry Bush, which is believed to date from the mid-18th century, began
as a way for washerwomen to teach their children basic housekeeping. The rhyme
details a system for completing the weeks chores that not only makes perfect
practical sense, but also reflects the traditional planetary rulerships for the
days of the week. Its a system that was still being used, in a slightly
modified form, by Victorian homemakers:
Monday (the Moons
day) for laundry; Tuesday (Mars day) for ironing; Wednesday (Mercurys
day) for mending; Thursday (Jupiters day) for shopping; Friday (Venus
day) for housecleaning; Saturday (Saturns day) for baking; Sunday
(the Suns day) for rest.
By the time I grew up in mid-20th
century America, this domestic schedule was still deeply entrenched in the culture.
I vividly remember my neighbors days of the week aprons, each
embroidered with the days chore! Nor was this tradition confined to America
or England. A friend who grew up in Mexico confirms that essentially the same
routine was followed on her familys ranch.
But
can modern homemakers take our cues from the Victorian housewife or from an 18th
century childrens rhyme? After all, the landscape of daily life has changed
dramatically. These days, dinner in many households is more likely to be a take-out
meal from the local fast food restaurant than a pot roast cooked at home. Housecleaning
and laundry are done during odd moments stolen between more pressing obligations
and usually only after the family has depleted its store of clean shirts. And
in a world devoted to wrinkle-free miracle fabrics, who irons?
Most modern
American families no longer grow our own food, other than what we produce in small
hobby gardens. Unlike the household of the Victorian era, or even the 1950s, few
households have a full-time homemaker with time to mend hems and bake her own
bread. Have we jettisoned the need for planetary wisdom along with our plows and
thimbles?
Considering our estrangement from most of natures cycles,
its a bit surprising to find that the answer is no. We may buy our food
from supermarkets, clothe ourselves in wash-and-wear shirts, and hire someone
to clean our house every couple of weeks, but the planets still have plenty of
advice about the best days to do these things. All thats needed is a bit
of invention to align the chores of modern living with the ageless wisdom of the
planets.
Monday: Moon's day.
In the traditional home, Monday
was the day for laundry, which is ruled by the Moon. Before the blessed advent
of automatic washing machines, it took the whole of the Sabbath for a homemaker
to rest up for what was the most physically punishing of her chores. Now machines
do most of the hardest work, and the modern homemaker usually wrestles with the
laundry basket on the weekend, leaving Monday free for other lunar chores.
With
the Moons connection to nourishment, Monday is a good day to cook up a large
pot of something tasty soup, say, or spaghetti sauce that can be
frozen and thawed for future dinners. Haul out your old crock-pot and fill it
with ingredients that can cook slowly while youre at work. When you come
home, youll sit down to a nice, hot bowl of stew and feel as cherished as
a child.
Monday, ruled by the nurturing Moon, is also a day for taking care
of others. Take a container of your homemade stew to an elderly friend, inscribe
a pretty greeting card to a sick relative, or phone your homesick daughter who
is away at college.