"All
forces occur in pairs, and these two forces are equal
in magnitude and opposite in direction." ~
Newton’s Third Law of Motion
Suddenly,
with the popularity of the book "The Secret," everyone
seems excited about the idea of creating the life you want
through the power of positive thinking. It’s an appealing,
though not particularly fresh concept. But I suspect that
what appears to be a kind of loophole in Eeyore’s
Law – which states that if your life can suck, it will
suck – is not exactly a get-out-of-jail-free card. This
is because you are not the only force at work in the world,
and so your power to achieve precisely what you want is necessarily
limited by what others want. After all, the 2008 U.S. presidential
candidates may all envision themselves as leader of the free
world, but only one of them is going to end up taking the
oath of office.
I don’t
mean to dismiss positive thinking out of hand; I perform my
new and full moon rituals, after all. But it seems obvious
that what we want is not always exactly what we’ll get – sometimes,
it won’t even be close. And I’ll take this a step further:
Sometimes, maybe we shouldn’t get exactly what we
want. I shudder to think what would have happened had
I married the man with whom my 25-year-old self was so desperately
infatuated. Our ability to visualize something and to pursue
it with positive thoughts and actions is not only no guarantee
that we’ll get it – it’s not even a guarantee that it’s something
worth pursuing.
That’s
one reason our closest relationships are so important: they
help us see past our blind spots. My family and friends were
all rightly skeptical of my early, bad relationship choices.
Yes, their negative thinking was a bummer and I didn’t always
appreciate their perspectives. But as it turned out, they
were right about what was good for me, and I was wrong.
Watch
a toddler exploring his world – wordlessly, unconsciously,
and completely without fear. From the moment he awakens to
the moment he falls asleep, he’s in motion. He pokes, prods,
nags, cries, and shakes his tiny arms in frustration. He eats
whatever he finds on the floor, makes a grab for his older
brother’s favorite toy, hurls himself at the unsuspecting
family dog. And an entire household responds swiftly to teach
him the consequences of his actions and the boundaries of
acceptable behavior. The dog growls at him. His mother and
father frown and tell him "no." His brother hollers
and kicks him in the shin.
It’s
part of human nature for a child to exert his will and try
to get what he wants. It’s only through the reactions of those
around him that he gradually learns that other people want
things, too, and sometimes we have to share or compromise.
You don’t
have to have spent a lot of time on the planet to recognize
that there is a little bit of toddler – sometimes more – in
each of us. In astrology, we call this primal, uncivilized
force of nature Aries: the warrior, the initiator,
the Man of Action. The Sun, which is astrology’s shorthand
for conscious will, is considered "exalted", or
exceptionally strong, in the sign of Aries. This reminds us
that action serves us best when it is an expression of conscious
will and integrity.
Aries’
opposite sign, Libra, is the sign of Saturn’s exaltation.
Libra rules reaction, the consequences of exerting
our will through action or force, and Saturn symbolizes what
we might call karma – more or less another way of stating
Newton’s third law: Every action has an equal and opposite
reaction. In other words, if we push, the world will push
back. If we choose to take action, there will be consequences.
Sometimes they are positive consequences; other times, not
so much. Often, we have no way of knowing in advance which
way it will go, which is a gamble worth taking if your action
is well-considered and you believe in it with all your heart.
But because taking action can have a large effect on the world,
Libra encourages us to consider advice and alternative perspectives
before we act.
This
Libran second-guessing has drawbacks of its own, of course.
From time to time we get stuck, and I think it’s often because
we doubt our ability to make a difference. I’ve spent a few
years hanging around the periphery of the peace movement,
not because I went looking for it – although I was opposed
to the invasion of Iraq from the start – but because a friend
of mine was involved in a local peace and justice group. She
and I had formed a singing group with another friend, and
she asked us to sing with her at some demonstrations and related
functions. This we were happy to do. But honestly, without
that invitation I seriously doubt I’d have gotten involved.
My feeling was that the problem of war was too massive for
my feeble actions to be of any consequence. I’m just one
person and puny in contrast to the size of the problem.
What, I figured, was the point?
I see
it differently now. My singing at a protest rally can’t stop
a war, period. Newton’s second law states that force equals
mass times acceleration, and one person doesn’t have much
mass compared to an entire war. But get a lot of voices together
and you have a chorus – a "mass" of small, individual
voices that carries a lot more force.
Action
always creates a reaction - but you can’t always predict
or control the nature or magnitude of that reaction. In fact,
you might not even recognize it at first, because it will
reflect not only your own actions and intentions, but something
more mysterious too - the tone of the times, and the collective
will.
So maybe
the message is this: Go ahead and visualize what you wish
to attract. Act on your wishes, with consciousness and good
faith, and from the truest, most recklessly hopeful, Aries
part of yourself. But be ever mindful that your individual
– and limited – vision is not the only one that counts. The
Full Moon in Libra reminds us that we’re all part of a larger
collaboration, and that joining together with others can
make us wiser, stronger, and more influential – even if it
means that we occasionally have to yield our Aries desires
to the wishes of others.